last night i watched a drama on channel 8 and there was this actor who mentioned that there are only two possibilities why a couple do remain as friends after they broke up: first, it maybe because one of them never really love the other party; and the other possibility is that one of them regrets and hopes to be back in the relationship one day...
i went to think about it and hmmmm.... i do agree with what he said to a certain extent! (WAAAHHHHH!!! sounds so SOCIAL STUDIES!!!) but since i am so "free" right now, let me share with you the third possibility...
i personally always believe that friends-after-a-break-up exists... and what i mean is nothing related to either of the possibilities mentioned earlier.
i feel that if one is able to accept the fact of a break up, it will never be a problem to stay as friends; in fact they may end up beingvery close friendssince they used to be with each other and they surely know each other better than other people do.
and another thing that i always keep in mind is that love does not mean you have to own. to say i really love someone, to me it means i want to see him happy, be it the case when we both are together or not.
and believe me, it feels GOOD! when you are able to do it!
